Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ;
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Slaves, in all things obey those who are your masters on earth, not with external service, as those who merely please men, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.
All who are under the yoke as slaves are to regard their own masters as worthy of all honor so that the name of God and our doctrine will not be spoken against.
Urge bondslaves to be subject to their own masters in everything, to be well-pleasing, not argumentative,
This from The Good Book.
You'll have to pardon me if I cast some Judeo Christian ethics aside when detrmining how to live my life and raise my child.